stjimmyjazz asked: First off, let me compliment you on your blog. Hot as fuck, man. You have an excellent taste in men. And porn.
Secondly, I love hearing about you and your husband. I just moved in with my boyfriend and hearing about the two of you gives me a lot of encouragement. It's always amazing to hear about two people, regardless of gender, that are still obviously in love with each other, even after being together for a while.
Thanks for the compliments—I appreciate them. And congratulations on taking that big step.
My best advice on making a relationship work is something that you’ve heard a billion times: communicate with one another, and try not to go to bed angry. Living together, I guarantee that you will discover things about him that will drive you insane, and not in the good way. Let those things go. Laugh during sex, make funny faces, and do silly things together. Also, spend time apart from one another—you don’t need to be connected at the hip. You both need your own interests, as well as things you’re both interested in. Don’t assume things, either.
My parents were married for 40 years, and my dad was so in love with my mom right up until the day he died, and my mom is still so in love with him. Time is irrelevant, because it’s an illusion. You only have the present moment, so use it wisely.
